Nothing Is Meant To Be

June 05, 2020 1 min read

 Andy standing with arms crossed

I know what it's like to feel stuck.

I know what it's like to feel hopeless.

I know what it's like to hate what you see in the mirror.

I know what it's like to be so disappointed in myself that I want to puke.

I know what it's like to blame everything & everyone else.

I know what it's like to make every excuse in the world.

...but here is the other thing I know:


You make it fucking BE! The good & the bad.

You wanna know what separates the winners from the losers in this world?

The difference is, winners are honest with themselves.

They don’t lie to themselves about the effort they are putting in.

They don’t blame anyone but themselves when they don’t see progress.

They don’t complete one measly task and expect success.

They don’t say things like “I’m trying my best” or “it’s not my fault”.

Instead, they recognize the lack of effort, take responsibility, and fix the fucking issue.

I want you to do something tonight.

Before you go to bed, stand in front of a mirror.

Think about your day.

Can you look yourself in the eyes and say you executed every single second today?

If you said yes, then you’re fucking delusional, and you will never get anywhere close to your goals.

Own your bullshit.

Fix your bullshit.

Real change starts within.


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