If you're someone who frequently complains and bitches to others about your struggles...
Whether it's online or face-to-face...
Just understand that while these people may offer you some sympathy...
They're secretly wishing you would just shut the fuck up.
Believe it or not...
We all have struggles.
Not just you.
...and every single time you feel the need to "vent" to somebody else about your situation...
You lose their respect in an instant.
Nobody wants to hear about your struggles.
They want to hear about how you overcame your struggles.
That's what people admire.
So quit complaining.
If you legitimately don't like the way your life looks right now...
Create a plan...
Then execute that plan.
Bitching about it will only make your situation worse.
That's the truth.