One of the biggest things I've seen that helps people is just being aware of the fact that there are holes in your game.
If you are honestly aware of that fact...
It's really hard to not want to improve them naturally.
It's when we deny that we have holes in our game that allows these holes to fester and become big problems in our lives.
Be aware.
You have holes.
I have holes.
We all do.
Don't panic about it.
Don't feel guilty.
Just acknowledge it and observe how the motivation to get better shows up.
1. Identify your holes.
2. Commit to being better and living to a higher standard.
3. Repeat this as many times as you can over the course of your life.
Do that, and I guarantee you'll become a fucking legend.