Do You Feel Stuck?

October 09, 2023 2 min read

Andy Frisella walking upstairs

If you feel stuck...

If you feel hopeless...

If you feel disappointed in yourself...

If you hate what you see in the mirror...

Understand that it doesn't have to be that way.

It really doesn’t.

You don’t have to be mad or feel bad about it either … yet.

Understand, your current situation doesn’t reflect who you are at this very moment while you are reading these very words.

Your current situation is instead a direct reflection of the actions you've taken up to this point.

When you were a literal different human.

The disgust, frustration and disappointment you feel right now about your current situation is proof that you are no longer that person who took the actions that created it.

Take ownership.

Stand in it.

Accept it.

Forgive yourself.

…and take new actions relentlessly.

If you do that, with time, your current situation will seemingly start to magically transform…

…but it isnt magic at all.

It’s cause and effect.

It’s math.

Its inputs and outputs.

What decisions you make today produce an outcome that you receive with compounding interest on the other side of time passed.

So ask yourself:

What decisions would the person you want to be make?

Make those decisions.

Do that for enough days in a row…

…and you will absolutely become that person over time.

If that doesn’t make sense to you, you choose to believe it works a different way or refuse to change your current decision making process you aren’t gonna become who you are trying to become…

Ever.

Because that is how it works.

Great decisions today equate to a great life down the road.

It’s pretty fucking simple.

By the way, if you choose to make these low level decisions knowing it’s costing you your dreams on the other side of time…

…from this point forward you should be mad and feel bad about it.

You know better.

When you knowingly do what you know is wrong for you it kills you from the inside little by little.

So yeah…

You’re gonna feel bad.

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