Quit thinking of your hardships as obstacles standing in the way of your success...
And start thinking of them as gifts.
The universe doesn't hate you...
God doesn't hate you...
You aren't unlucky...
You're just too busy being a "poor little me" ... instead of using your struggles as tremendous opportunities to strengthen your discipline...
Perseverance...
Grit...
And every other SKILL you need to fucking dominate in life ... and win big.
Think about that the next time you start whining about "how bad you have it."