Who Is Your Biggest Hater?

October 13, 2020 2 min read

Andy sitting on a bench in the gym

Who is your biggest hater?

If I had to guess…

You’d probably give me the name of a person based upon your reasons, the stage of life you are in, and your relationship with that person.

You might say your uncle, or your aunt, or that random person online that has been your biggest hater…

They have always doubted you…

They have always questioned your actions…

But what if I told you that you are wrong?

What if I told you that you have been wrong this entire time?

You see, it’s so easy to point fingers at someone to blame for the hurt or pain you are feeling.

But if you think deeper into this…

Your biggest hater is not your uncle, or your aunt, or whoever you think it is…

IT’S YOU.

You have been creating these incredibly complex scenarios inside your mind which go against all that you have ever wanted in your life...

You think of all the things that can go wrong inside of your head before you even take a single step...

Your mind plays all the tricks to destroy the motivation that pushes you towards your goal.

The amount of negativity you get from other people in the real world is negligible compared to the negativity you breed inside your own mind.

You can cry and whine all you want about how people hate you and look down on you…

But the real reason behind your lack of accomplishment is YOU.

It’s YOU who is holding yourself back.

It’s YOU who is having a war in your head against your own best interests.

You have to get out of your own way.

You have to stop doubting yourself and start acting more.

You need to shut down that poisonous part of your mind that infects your positive action-taking part of your brain.

If you develop this habit…

And do this every day…

No amount of hate from any person from the outside world will be able to have any effect on your progress.



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