Blaming anyone but yourself for the position you currently find yourself in is some of the weakest shit on earth.
It’s not your parents.
It’s not your boyfriend.
It’s not your girlfriend.
It’s not your ex.
It’s not your boss or your job.
It’s not that other people have “privilege.”
It’s you.
It’s the decisions you make.
It’s the truth you refuse to acknowledge.
It’s the work you refuse to do.
It’s who you refuse to become.
If you find yourself in a less than ideal situation…
Stop crying.
Stop blaming.
Stop wallowing.
Stop being a victim.
Take responsibility for yourself and start making the decisions you know you should have been making this entire time.
Stop with the weak shit.
It’s you.
Fix it or sit down and take what you get.
Those are your choices.