Stop Being a Bystander

January 25, 2024 1 min read

Andy Frisella

Have you ever heard of the Bystander Effect?

It's a psychological theory that says people are less likely to help someone in need or fix a problem when there are other people around.

It also plays a massive role in your ability to accomplish anything great in life.

To some degree...

Most people are a bystander in their own life...

Which is why most people don't accomplish much.

When problems and obstacles present themselves...

They deflect responsibility and say "It's not their problem."

But by doing this...

These people are passing up on valuable opportunities to build discipline...

…learn new skills…

...and build value in themselves by providing and implementing long term solutions.

Winners accept responsibility and take advantage of these opportunities to become highly skilled and valuable.

Losers stand around and wait for someone else to handle shit.

Stop being a loser.

When you identify a problem...

Whether the problem was "your fault" or not...

Take ownership and fix it.

You'll be amazed at just how quickly things will change for you.

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