Self-Respect Is Earned

If you want to be confident...

If you want to be happy...

...and if you want to respect yourself...

You have to keep the promises you make to yourself.

Confidence isn't something you're born with.

Self-belief isn't a gift.

Self-worth isn't handed to you.

These are skills you earn.

You earn them by doing what you say you're going to do.

You earn them by following through on your commitments.

You earn them by proving to yourself that your word means something.

Think about it this way:

If you had a friend who constantly made promises only to never follow through...

What would you think of that person?

Do you think you'd be able to trust or respect them?

No ... You'd think they're full of shit.

That's exactly how you feel about yourself when you break the promises you make to yourself.

Every time you say you're going to do something and don't do it...

You lose respect for yourself.

Every time you make a commitment and break it...

You destroy your self-confidence.

Every time you quit...

You prove to yourself that you can't be trusted.

This is why you're unhappy.

It's not because you're not good enough.

It's because you haven't been keeping your promises.

The good news is you can fix this today.

Start keeping your promises no matter what.

There can be 0 compromise.

As you build a track record of keeping your promises...

You'll start to trust and believe in yourself.

But it all starts with keeping your word.

The person in the mirror is the most important one in your life.

If you can't trust them...

If you can't count on them...

If you can't respect them...

How can you expect anyone else to?

Your relationship with yourself sets the standard for every other relationship in your life.

Keep your promises.

All of them.