Quit using the popular phrase "love yourself" as a justification to be a lazy piece of shit.
Becoming someone you can actually be proud of takes a lot of time, effort, and sacrifice.
The truth is, people don't like hearing this because it's not instant or easy.
They'd rather tell themselves some bullshit feel-good mantra that really doesn't fix shit.
It's okay to look at yourself and not be proud with certain aspects of your life.
This critical lens allows you to evaluate the things you need to improve to truly be proud of yourself...
As you start working in these areas and shaping yourself into the person you truly want to be...
That's when you'll truly love yourself.