Life isn't fair.
Never has been.
Never will be.
Regardless of how much bitching and whining you do about "fairness" you won't change this reality.
It's wasted thought, breath, and energy.
Natural order always wins.
That means the skilled rise and win and the unskilled do not.
This is reality.
It doesn't matter how you feel about it.
I didn't make the rules ... I just understand them.
Your choices are either get in the game of reality and put in the work required into becoming a skilled winner and building the life you want for yourself and your family...
You can sit there and do nothing, be nothing, contribute to nothing, stand for nothing, and waste your entire life bitching about how things should be.
Those are the only two choices.
...and you choose everyday with your actions.
Stop concerning yourself with how things should be and start operating in what is.
Then and only then will your situation improve.
Start investing in yourself today.
Becomes relentless in your pursuit of your potential.
Become the person who never quits.
It's the only way to "make things fair" for yourself.