If you want to eliminate unnecessary stress and drama from your life...
You need to learn to be direct with others.
Too many of us decorate our words with fluff to avoid hurting someone's feelings.
There is nothing wrong with telling someone the raw, unpolished truth.
Some people consider this to be abrupt, rude, and impolite...
But as long as you're telling this person the actual truth...
1. You're going to improve the quality of their life by bringing awareness to something that will help them.
2. You're going to save your time, energy, and sanity in the process.
Start communicating directly and truthfully...
In the end ... people will thank you for it.