It’s In Your Hands

May 13, 2025 1 min read


Just because you lack discipline doesn’t mean you’re not in control.

It means you are.

It means you’ve been actively choosing the chaos you’re living in.

The patterns.

The pain.

The half-ass effort and regret pattern you keep calling “trying.”

That’s not fate.

That’s decision.

You’ve chosen comfort over progress.

Impulse over structure.

Emotion over execution.

You didn’t “fall off.”

You chose to fall.

The truth is:

You could have done better…

You still can…

…but you haven’t because it’s easier to pretend you’re not in control than it is to own the truth.

You’re not confused.

You’re not cursed.

You’re not broken.

You’re undisciplined and too proud to admit it.

If you want different … then choose different.

You don’t need a plan.

You don’t need to be ready.

You need to decide and back that decision with behavior.

Because until then, you don’t get to say life’s out of your hands.

It’s in your hands … you’re just not gripping it tight enough.

Stop lying.

Start owning.

You’re not out of control.

You’re just avoiding the responsibility of being in charge.

…and there is nothing more weak and cowardly than that.

#100to0

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