You never hear anyone who is actually winning tell you how bad it sucks or how you shouldn't pursue high levels of achievement.
It's legitimately only losers who say that shit.
People who have never won at anything say that shit.
...and it bothers them that you are not like them.
If you don't want their life...
Use heavy discernment when listening to them about anything.
Go win.
Build yourself into the best version of yourself possible.
You have an obligation to win big as fuck and inspire those around you to win as well.
Fuck the people who don't like it.
They are doomed to live a miserable life.
Their life will be their punishment.
Yours will be your reward.
....and the world will be better for it.