One of the biggest things I've struggled with over the course of my life is having that little voice inside me that says that everyone else is smarter, more talented, or just plain better at [fill in the blank]. "They have some magic that I don't," the voice says. Now I've learned how to flip the voice on its @ss & use it to drive me. But the reality is, the whole self-doubt & comparison thing can really kill us. In this episode, I share 2 things that help me win that battle. They can help you win it, too.

SHOW NOTES

00:10 – Andy’s introduction to today’s show 

01:40 – One of the biggest things Andy has struggled with over the course of his life

04:30 – Why you have to understand that the negative voice in your head is normal

05:30 – How Andy evaluates himself today

06:45 – Why you have to quit selling yourself short and understand you have what it takes to be successful

08:15 – How small decisions ultimately brought Andy to where he is today 

10:15 – The right and wrong way to compare yourself to others

10:50 – Why assuming that everyone thinks the same way as you is a HUGE mistake

11:40 – How our different experiences shape our perspectives and world view

12:20 – Why being empathetic with different schools of thought can give you an edge

12:50 – The biggest mistake you can make in business 

14:10 – Recapping the two things you can do right now to be happier and more successful 

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