Your Biggest Hater Is You

June 01, 2025 1 min read


Who is your biggest hater?

Who is the person who's standing in the way and preventing you from taking action and making progress?

Most people are quick to point fingers and say shit like...

"My family doesn't support me."

"My friends doubt me."

"My boss holds me back."

Bullshit.

You want to know who your real biggest hater is?

It's YOU.

YOU are the one who doubts yourself before anyone else gets the chance.

YOU are the one who breaks promises to yourself daily.

YOU are the one who lets fear paralyze you into inaction.

You're waging war against yourself and you're losing.

You've just convinced yourself that people care enough about your life to actively work against you.

That is false.

You don't have real haters.

Until you've done something of real significance, I can promise you...

Nobody is thinking about you.

Nobody is plotting your downfall.

Nobody is working to sabotage your success.

You're not that important.

Get out of your own way.

Nobody is going to talk about you unless you're doing something great.

...and once you are...

You won't give a fuck what they have to say.

#100to0

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