If you are ever going to be whoever it is you are working to become...
You have to start thinking of yourself as that person in your mind.
Understand that most of who you are is not actually who you are...
It's who you think you are.
This is how it works...
Who you see yourself as will determine your actions.
Your actions will determine who you actually are.
So if you want to shape yourself into the person you ultimately want to become...
Start seeing yourself as that person now.
You will never make progress toward becoming that person until you do.
That's the truth.