You never see anyone who's actually winning tell you how bad it sucks or how you shouldn't pursue high levels of achievement.
It's only people who aren't winning big that say that shit.
EVERY. FUCKING. TIME.
If you don't want their life...
I'd use heavy discernment when listening to them about anything.
Winning doesn't mean zero problems...
In reality, it likely means you're really good at solving them.
Regardless, yes, winning has its negatives...
But its negatives are 1000x better than the ones you have when you are losing.
I've been both people...
...and that's just the truth.
Make it a point to fucking win and inspire people to win as well.
Fuck people who don't like it.
They have never won at anything and will never win in anything.
Sucks to suck.