What you wish for others is what you will receive for yourself.
That includes all of the people who have caused you pain.
Do you want what's best for others?
Do you want to see them win?
Do you get excited about their growth?
...or are you secretly hoping that these people fall on their faces and never get back up?
It's not about what you say...
It's about how you feel in your heart.
If you want to get wherever it is you're trying to go...
Learn to be happy for others when they win.
It's required.