This Is the True Meaning of Kindness…

April 10, 2022 1 min read

Andy talking to a group of people

Most people have adopted a false idea of what it means to truly be kind to someone.

They think that being kind means making someone feel good about themselves all the time.

While there’s a time and place for bringing someone up...

True kindness has nothing to do with making others feel good about themselves.

True kindness is about telling the truth to help that person improve.

This means having difficult conversations with them.

Understand that the truth doesn't always feel good...

The truth hurts...

The truth is unforgiving...

But on the other hand...

When you get conditioned to always feel good about yourself even when you’re not doing the work…

You will begin to justify your failures … and lose in life as a result.

So you can either surround yourself with people who aren’t afraid to have the hard conversations with you so you can get better…

Or you can surround yourself with people who will give you a pat on the ass no matter what and allow you to be average.

It’s up to you.

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