Try to remember this anytime you feel like bitching and complaining to other people...
You're the only person who cares.
Nobody else wants to hear about what's wrong with your life.
If they seem interested...
I promise you they are just being polite and they'd prefer that you quit talking.
Your whining and bitching gets you nothing other than less respect from the people around you.
The truth is...
This will create a negative association with your name that will make others turn and run away.
Is there something in your life you don't like?
I recommend you get off your ass and make a change.
If you don't want to do that...
Go sit on the bench and be quiet.