If you insist on sharing your problems and "sad story" with the rest of the world...
MAKE SURE that you are taking the actions necessary to overcome these struggles.
Nobody fucking respects people who complain and constantly makes themselves victims.
NOBODY.
We don't need any more professional victims in society...
We need less.
So if you truly want the support and respect of the people around you...
Quit making your struggles your identity.
Start working to overcome them.