Don’t Anchor Your Identity in Victimhood

Can we stop with the weak victimhood bullshit?

So many people out here have anchored their identity in victimhood so hard that they forgot they ever had dreams to begin with.

Who had it the hardest.

Who's more hurt.

Who's more "traumatized."

Revisiting wounds.

Repeating stories.

Rehearsing pain over and over.

Everyone's in a competition for who gets to wear the crown of pain.

Who fucking cares?

What are you doing now?

Pain isn't status.

It's the price of admission.

You aren't supposed to "process" it and wallow in it forever.

You aren't supposed to hide in the shadow of hardship to avoid the real work.

Harness it.

Aim it.

Use it.

Step the fuck up and create the ultimate version of yourself.

Winners don't stay victims.

They turn the shit that broke them into the weapon that builds them.

There is zero nobility in wallowing in your sad story.

The only nobility in your sad story is overcoming it and showing others they can do the same.