Pouring all of your effort and energy into building the life of your dreams is hard.
Settling for a mediocre life that you fucking hate waking up to everyday is also hard.
Going to the gym and consistently eating the right foods to stay healthy is hard.
Hating what you see in the mirror is also hard.
See what I'm getting at here?
Everything is fucking hard.
...and if you structure your life in order to avoid as much struggle as possible...
The result will be even more struggle … and a life you fucking hate.
You can't opt out of hard.
You better start embracing the hardship and struggles it takes to build the life you do want...
Otherwise, you're going to get the hardship and struggles from a life you don't want by default.