Amateurs let emotions dictate their decision-making, which causes them to make the same mistakes over and over again.
Experienced leaders keep their emotions separated from their decision-making, and address each situation with the facts.
You have to learn to take a step back...
Detach yourself...
Evaluate the situation logically...
Then execute.
If you're constantly acting out of emotion...
The outcome is going to be deadly.
I couldn't tell you one time in my life where the emotional decision was the right decision.
The sooner you start learning to use reason and logic...
The faster your life will progress.